Saturday, November 18, 2006

THE TRUE SPIRIT OF GIVING

Secret Santa Reveals His Identity



By MARIA SUDEKUM FISHER, Associated Press Writer
Sat Nov 18, 5:10 AM

KANSAS CITY, Mo. - For 26 years, a man known only as Secret Santa has roamed the streets every December quietly giving people money. He started with $5 and $10 bills. As his fortune grew, so did the gifts. In recent years, Secret Santa has been handing out $100 bills, sometimes two or three at a time, to people in thrift stores, diners and parking lots. So far, he's anonymously given out about $1.3 million. It's been a long-held holiday mystery: Who is Secret Santa?

But now, weak from chemotherapy and armed with a desire to pass on his belief in random kindness, Secret Santa has decided it's time to reveal his identity.

He is Larry Stewart, a 58-year-old businessman from the Kansas City suburb of Lee's Summit, Mo., who made his millions in cable television and long-distance telephone service.

His holiday giving started in December 1979 when he was nursing his wounds at a drive-in restaurant after getting fired. It was the second year in a row he had been fired the week before Christmas.

"It was cold and this car hop didn't have on a very big jacket, and I thought to myself, `I think I got it bad. She's out there in this cold making nickels and dimes,'" he said.

He gave her $20 and told her to keep the change.

"And suddenly I saw her lips begin to tremble and tears begin to flow down her cheeks. She said, `Sir, you have no idea what this means to me.'"

Stewart went to the bank that day and took out $200, then drove around looking for people who could use a lift. That was his "Christmas present to himself." He's hit the streets each December since.

While Stewart has also given money to other community causes in Kansas City and his hometown of Bruce, Miss., he offers the simple gifts of cash because it's something people don't have to "beg for, get in line for, or apply for."

That was a feeling he came to know in the early '70s when he was living out of his yellow Datsun 510. Hungry and tired, Stewart mustered the nerve to approach a woman at a church and ask for help.

The woman told him the person who could help was gone for the day, and Stewart would have to come back the next day.

"As I turned around, I knew I would never do that again," Stewart said.

Over the years, Stewart's giving as Secret Santa grew. He started a Web site. He allowed the news media to tag along, mostly because he wanted to hear about the people who received the money. Reporters had to agree to guard his identity and not name his company, which he still does not want revealed.

His entourage grew over the years, and he began traveling with special elves. People like the late Negro Leagues icon Buck O'Neil, who handed out hugs while Stewart doled out $100s. NFL Hall of Famer Dick Butkus will join Stewart this year in Chicago when Stewart hands out $100s in honor of O'Neil, the first African-American coach in the Major Leagues.

They'll give out $100,000 between Chicago and Kansas City. Four Secret Santas who Stewart "trained" will hand out an additional $65,000.

Doctors told Stewart in April that he had cancer of the esophagus and it had spread to his liver. He has been lucky, he says, to get into a clinical trial at M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Houston. But the aggressive chemotherapy has stripped away his appetite and energy. He's lost about 100 pounds, but has held onto his white hair.

The treatment costs more than $16,000 a month, not including the cost of traveling to Houston every two weeks and staying there for five or six days. He now has two months off, but returns to treatment in February.

His insurance company won't cover the cost of the treatment, which has left him concerned about his finances and his family.

Now, his mission is bigger than handing out $100 bills. Stewart wants to speak to community groups about his devotion to kindness and to inspire others to donate their time and money.

"That's what we're here for," Stewart says, "to help other people out."

Friday, November 17, 2006

CAN YOU BELIEVE MICAH IS "8"?!?

Today our little boy turned eight! Wow.... How time flies by when your having fun! It's been such a joy and a blessing to call him our son. We are truly blessed to have such an exceptional young man. As we watch Micah grow and witness his zeal for life and all that it has to offer, as his parents it's hard not to be proud. Our prayer for him as he grows comes from the verse that he was named after....

He has shown you, O man, what is good;
And what does the LORD require of you
But to do justly,
To love mercy,
And to walk humbly with your God?
- Micah 6:8


Here's a small trip down memory lane!!! Can you believe how much he has grown?



We celebrated Micah's Birthday tonight at a place called "Pump It Up"!!! It is a fabulous place to have a birthday party at. The kids were able to jump, race, and slide down numerous blow up toys for about 2 hours. Then we got to sugar them all up with cake, ice cream, juice and candy - then send them all home with their parents. We all had a blast!!! Here are some pictures from the party!

Saturday, November 11, 2006

NOVEMBER- ADOPTION AWARENESS MONTH

If your life has been touched by adoption or you've considered adoption then here are a few links for you to view. Also the week of November 13-17, Family Life, Focus on the Family and Steven Curtis Chapman will be doing radio broadcasts to bring awareness of the 143 million children around the world as orphans, 143 million children waiting for love and support.

Focus on the Family

FamilyLife

Shaohannah's Hope

Holt International

Not every family is meant to adopt, but I do believe every family should be aware of the orphan crisis in our world. Whether you adopt a child, sponsor a child, or volunteer your time to help children in need, you're at least doing something. I don't believe our world can continue to ignore this crisis much longer.

Vindicate the weak and fatherless; Do justice to the afflicted and destitute.
Psalm 82:3

Sunday, November 05, 2006

STILL WAITING......





We are now at our six month wait for our referral. When we first started this adoption process we were told that our wait for a referral should take 6-8 months. Well now it will be an even longer wait. Each month we receive updates from our agency notifying us of the current time frames, and what they know about the new policy changes. We have not yet received our update for November, but the October update mentioned that the wait for referrals has been extended quite a bit. So by the time frame they are now quoting, we may have to wait until January or February or 2007 for our referral. :(

Worst-case scenario would be if we do not get our referral by Febrary then we will have to wait until the Summer '07. This is due to the new policy changes that have taken place in Korea. We are trying to be as patient as we can be. We, (mostly I) have good days, and then some bad days. I know that we could endure to wait an additional 6 months if we had to, it is just that we would really prefer not to. (Along with all of the families who are waiting in limbo like we are).

Today has just been looming over me, knowing that it could of been the beginning of our 'open window' to get our referral. It could still happen, but to protect my heart I'm not going to be expecting it until after the the New Year. And if not by then, I guess we'll have some more waiting to do!