Thursday, January 11, 2007

AMANDA DARLENE

Not flesh of my
flesh,
Not bone of my
bone.
But still
miraculiously my
own.
Never forget
for a single
minute,
You din't grow
under my heart
But in it.

-Fleur Conkling Heylinger


Do not be afraid, for I am with you;
I will bring your children from the east and gather you from the west.
I will say to the north, `Give them up!' and to the south, `Do not hold them back.'
Bring my sons from afar and my daughters from the ends of the earth
Isaiah 43: 5-6


I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him.
1 Samuel 1:27

Wednesday, January 03, 2007

REFERRAL!!!

FIRST OFF..... HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL OF YOU!!!!

We received a referral of a beautiful baby girl on Friday, December 29, 2006. Amanda Darlene was born on November 10, 2006, and I must say we are so in love with this little girl. Her name means "worthy of love" or "beloved". We found out the wonderful news while we were driving from Houston to San Antonio. This is a copy of a post that I wrote on an adoption forum that tells the story of how we got the call.


We were in Houston visiting Soowan's brother, wife and daughter from Wednesday - Friday. Well my sister-in-law had her dad's laptop out and I asked if I could use it to check my email, and to also check up on all of you!!! After 3 days I begin to go through withdrawal!!!! When I checked the BB I noticed there had been several referrals and I noticed one family who had a HSTK after us received a referral. So this got me itching wondering if we possibly got a call as well. I talked to Soowan about it and he told me that if we did get our referral, then they would of called us. So I just settled down and closed the lap top and started to pack up our things because we were going to head out to San Antonio. We were going there to ring in the New Year and to celebrate my birthday as well.

So as we were on the road to San Antonio, I just couldn't stay calm. I just knew we had gotten our referral. Then it dawned on me that the only person who had our cell numbers was our social worker not Holt, or LSSS. I didn't call either one to give them our contact # while we were out of town. It did cross my mind before we left, but I thought there was no way we would get our call.

So after trying to call my neighbor to try and get her to go over to our house to check our phone messages, I decided to call 411 and get LSSS number. So when I called I spoke with Konnie and she told me, "Good thing you called, because yes you did get your referral!!!!!" I lost it at that point and began to sob. She said that everything was being FED EX'd to our house. So then I asked her if she knew if we had a girl or a boy and she said "GIRL!!!!" So I sobbed some more and she cried with me. It was so awesome. Soowan almost drove off the highway when I told him we had a baby girl. Micah was just as happy, because he has prayed just about every single night for a sister.

We decided not to return home because our social worker was on vacation as well. Our official referral was on Thursday, that's when the agency left a message for us, but I'm going to consider Friday, December 29th our official referral date!

I'm so happy that we were all 3 together when we received the good news!!! It was also wonderful that we all got to see her pictures at the same time as well. Let me tell you we drove as fast as we could to San Antonio to see her beautiful face.


I am not able to post her picture on a public forum until we have all our legal papers processed. I have emailed out Amanda's picture to everyone that I have a email address to. If I do not have your address, please send it to me if you would like to see her picture.

Amanda is now living outside of Seoul, Korea with a foster family until
she is ready to come home. We pray she will be in our arms in about 2-4
months. There are still many steps that we need to complete to bring
Amanda home. Right now we are filling out all of the legal acceptance
papers, and then we will need to apply for her visa so she can enter the
US. There are several other steps that need to occur as well, so we ask
that you will please keep us in your prayers as we wait for our
daughters homecoming.

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened to you.
For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds;
and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.
--- Matthew 7:7-8


Thank you all for your continued prayers and support.

Soowan, Nancy and new big brother Micah

Friday, December 22, 2006

Tidings Of Comfort And Joy!


Take a look at this picture!!! To our family it is more than just Christmas cards and Holiday greeting, it represents 'Tidings of Comfort and Joy!' You see, all these sweet cards were sent from families who are either in the process of adopting a child from Korea or have adopted from Korea. I've met all of these wonderful people on an adoption forum I frequent to get information and support. Every family's journey is different and uniquely their own. The majority of the families live in the USA, a few from Canada, one family from Norway and another family from 'down under' Australia. There are even several families who live in Texas. Last February Micah and I were honored to witness one family son's homecoming. It was such an overwhelming experience to watch this family come together. Also when we were vacationing in Hilton Head, SC this past October, by chance we ran into another family from the forum (who were vacationing there as well).

We've enjoyed receiving these cards in the past couple of weeks. Seeing the smiling faces of all these beautiful children gives us HOPE that although our journey may be long, the end results are well worth the wait!!!

Merry Christmas all of my BB friends!!!

Friday, December 01, 2006

'TIS THE SEASON

I haven't posted in a while so I thought I would share what we've been up to. Thanksgiving Day was also my Mom's Birthday!!! We did something a little different this year, we went out to eat for Thanksgiving. Soowan and I didn't want to prepare a feast for just the four of us, it's hard to cook a Thanksgiving meal for such a small amount of people. We knew tons of food would go to waist and we didn't want that to happen. We ended up going to a restaurant downtown called Avanti. They had a nice buffet set up, and the views were gorgeous. Outside of the restaurant there are tons of fountains to view. So we sat there for about 2 hours and stuffed ourselves and returned back home to watch some football and to celebrate my Mom's 65th Birthday!

On "black Friday" we didn't venture out too much. We went to Mardels and got a new Bible, The Message and some CD's they had on sale for only $5 each. Then we went and bought ourselves a Christmas Tree. We went 'fake' this year. There are only two things that cost more out here in Texas than is California, that is Private School and Christmas trees. And for some reason the trees do not last very long at all. So far we are enjoying our 'fake' tree because our pets are not trying to drink out of the water bowl and the dog has not tried to lift his leg on it. I do miss the smell of evergreen so we are going to pick up some live, potted trees to bring inside then plant them after the New Year.

Other than that we've been busy with other activities such as Micah's choir rehearsals, basketball practices, and preparing for his Y-Guides group that are going to be in a local parade tomorrow. BRRRRRRR.... It is going to be freezing Saturday morning. It will be in the high 20's when we get to the parade and it may warm up to the mid 30's by the time the parade ends.

Speaking of it being cold, IT SNOWED YESTERDAY!!! Not a whole lot, but enough to go out and play in. Micah had a blast after school running around, making and throwing snowballs, and playing with the Davis' girls next door. The snow is still on the ground this morning, but will most likely melt this afternoon.

Oh well it was fun while it lasted!

Saturday, November 18, 2006

THE TRUE SPIRIT OF GIVING

Secret Santa Reveals His Identity



By MARIA SUDEKUM FISHER, Associated Press Writer
Sat Nov 18, 5:10 AM

KANSAS CITY, Mo. - For 26 years, a man known only as Secret Santa has roamed the streets every December quietly giving people money. He started with $5 and $10 bills. As his fortune grew, so did the gifts. In recent years, Secret Santa has been handing out $100 bills, sometimes two or three at a time, to people in thrift stores, diners and parking lots. So far, he's anonymously given out about $1.3 million. It's been a long-held holiday mystery: Who is Secret Santa?

But now, weak from chemotherapy and armed with a desire to pass on his belief in random kindness, Secret Santa has decided it's time to reveal his identity.

He is Larry Stewart, a 58-year-old businessman from the Kansas City suburb of Lee's Summit, Mo., who made his millions in cable television and long-distance telephone service.

His holiday giving started in December 1979 when he was nursing his wounds at a drive-in restaurant after getting fired. It was the second year in a row he had been fired the week before Christmas.

"It was cold and this car hop didn't have on a very big jacket, and I thought to myself, `I think I got it bad. She's out there in this cold making nickels and dimes,'" he said.

He gave her $20 and told her to keep the change.

"And suddenly I saw her lips begin to tremble and tears begin to flow down her cheeks. She said, `Sir, you have no idea what this means to me.'"

Stewart went to the bank that day and took out $200, then drove around looking for people who could use a lift. That was his "Christmas present to himself." He's hit the streets each December since.

While Stewart has also given money to other community causes in Kansas City and his hometown of Bruce, Miss., he offers the simple gifts of cash because it's something people don't have to "beg for, get in line for, or apply for."

That was a feeling he came to know in the early '70s when he was living out of his yellow Datsun 510. Hungry and tired, Stewart mustered the nerve to approach a woman at a church and ask for help.

The woman told him the person who could help was gone for the day, and Stewart would have to come back the next day.

"As I turned around, I knew I would never do that again," Stewart said.

Over the years, Stewart's giving as Secret Santa grew. He started a Web site. He allowed the news media to tag along, mostly because he wanted to hear about the people who received the money. Reporters had to agree to guard his identity and not name his company, which he still does not want revealed.

His entourage grew over the years, and he began traveling with special elves. People like the late Negro Leagues icon Buck O'Neil, who handed out hugs while Stewart doled out $100s. NFL Hall of Famer Dick Butkus will join Stewart this year in Chicago when Stewart hands out $100s in honor of O'Neil, the first African-American coach in the Major Leagues.

They'll give out $100,000 between Chicago and Kansas City. Four Secret Santas who Stewart "trained" will hand out an additional $65,000.

Doctors told Stewart in April that he had cancer of the esophagus and it had spread to his liver. He has been lucky, he says, to get into a clinical trial at M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Houston. But the aggressive chemotherapy has stripped away his appetite and energy. He's lost about 100 pounds, but has held onto his white hair.

The treatment costs more than $16,000 a month, not including the cost of traveling to Houston every two weeks and staying there for five or six days. He now has two months off, but returns to treatment in February.

His insurance company won't cover the cost of the treatment, which has left him concerned about his finances and his family.

Now, his mission is bigger than handing out $100 bills. Stewart wants to speak to community groups about his devotion to kindness and to inspire others to donate their time and money.

"That's what we're here for," Stewart says, "to help other people out."

Friday, November 17, 2006

CAN YOU BELIEVE MICAH IS "8"?!?

Today our little boy turned eight! Wow.... How time flies by when your having fun! It's been such a joy and a blessing to call him our son. We are truly blessed to have such an exceptional young man. As we watch Micah grow and witness his zeal for life and all that it has to offer, as his parents it's hard not to be proud. Our prayer for him as he grows comes from the verse that he was named after....

He has shown you, O man, what is good;
And what does the LORD require of you
But to do justly,
To love mercy,
And to walk humbly with your God?
- Micah 6:8


Here's a small trip down memory lane!!! Can you believe how much he has grown?



We celebrated Micah's Birthday tonight at a place called "Pump It Up"!!! It is a fabulous place to have a birthday party at. The kids were able to jump, race, and slide down numerous blow up toys for about 2 hours. Then we got to sugar them all up with cake, ice cream, juice and candy - then send them all home with their parents. We all had a blast!!! Here are some pictures from the party!

Saturday, November 11, 2006

NOVEMBER- ADOPTION AWARENESS MONTH

If your life has been touched by adoption or you've considered adoption then here are a few links for you to view. Also the week of November 13-17, Family Life, Focus on the Family and Steven Curtis Chapman will be doing radio broadcasts to bring awareness of the 143 million children around the world as orphans, 143 million children waiting for love and support.

Focus on the Family

FamilyLife

Shaohannah's Hope

Holt International

Not every family is meant to adopt, but I do believe every family should be aware of the orphan crisis in our world. Whether you adopt a child, sponsor a child, or volunteer your time to help children in need, you're at least doing something. I don't believe our world can continue to ignore this crisis much longer.

Vindicate the weak and fatherless; Do justice to the afflicted and destitute.
Psalm 82:3

Sunday, November 05, 2006

STILL WAITING......





We are now at our six month wait for our referral. When we first started this adoption process we were told that our wait for a referral should take 6-8 months. Well now it will be an even longer wait. Each month we receive updates from our agency notifying us of the current time frames, and what they know about the new policy changes. We have not yet received our update for November, but the October update mentioned that the wait for referrals has been extended quite a bit. So by the time frame they are now quoting, we may have to wait until January or February or 2007 for our referral. :(

Worst-case scenario would be if we do not get our referral by Febrary then we will have to wait until the Summer '07. This is due to the new policy changes that have taken place in Korea. We are trying to be as patient as we can be. We, (mostly I) have good days, and then some bad days. I know that we could endure to wait an additional 6 months if we had to, it is just that we would really prefer not to. (Along with all of the families who are waiting in limbo like we are).

Today has just been looming over me, knowing that it could of been the beginning of our 'open window' to get our referral. It could still happen, but to protect my heart I'm not going to be expecting it until after the the New Year. And if not by then, I guess we'll have some more waiting to do!